I’ve come to realise, that it really is not about having the person for yourself, or having him by your side , or constantly wondering if you’re in his thoughts.

Its not even about liking that person in the most romantic sense.

It’s really about him occupying a special place in your heart. It doesn’t have to be romantic, you don’t have to be pining for him. It doesn’t have to feel bitter simply because you can’t have him.

It’s about him taking up that place, and making you feel good about yourself everytime you think about him, or talk to him. It’s about him putting a smile on your face, even though its just to say hi.

Because it doesn’t really matter.

Because all you really need, is to have someone to keep you sane. Even if its just a thought.

Which explains why everytime I feel down, I think of you.



  1. you are killing me.

  2. This i really have to ask, why?

  3. At least you have the thought 🙂

    And all us loyal comment posters…


  4. heh..=)

  5. Ouch. Sounds so sad…

  6. Yeh, quite true to a certain extent. Whenever I feel like swimming out in the big sea and never come back, I think about my baby and my wife.
    Maybe we are the silly people who float above the dust, drunk and singing; maybe we are just kites in the blue Skye, needing a hand to hold us.

  7. well, been following your blog for the past 3 months.
    sometimes when you know someone has a special place in your heart, but you can’t have her..
    but its just the thought of her that keeps you going for so long…
    Life is really cruel sometimes.

  8. tooth fairy: depends on how you look at it =)

    chaosm: haha, maybe

    ben: we can’t have it all in life =)

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